Why you care so much about other's OPINION!!!

Ystd RGV released his autobiography(can call it so, though i'm sure it won't be in a conventional format).
There was an interview in Ntv after that. It was the same situation over and over again. Varma making fools of the interviewers with his fundamentalism. The interviewers repeatedly trying to humiliate, looking for every possible opportunity to irritate or win over Varma's opinion on some issue.

I observed that this is everywhere. A person trying to decide or bias other's opinion. In the fundamental vantage point, according to a person/constituition, an individual has right to express his opinion. Varma is availing and enjoying the same. When Varma said he loves to see a woman as a sex symbol, the interviewer(say XX, frm now on) was agitated to peak most levels. Stating that this opinion of a celebrity like Varma will have a negative effect on youth. While Varma opining that youth are more matured than himself and XX to be effected by their words. That indeed is 100 p.c. true.

If youth are that vulnerable to what a celebrity talks or opines, then our country must have been a powerful one in all aspects in view of the speeches/books or otherwise delivered by Abdul kalam/Gandhi/Tata/Mother Theresa/Chiranjeevi(last one sounds funny eh!!). Or our nation might have gone to dogs with the influence of baddies(still dunno what is meant by goodie and a baddie).

Here, XX or , for that matter, anyone should fundamentally accept others opinion. Opinion in itself is something related to self. What is there for an opinion to be in terms with others opinion. An opinion is something that has formed to a person on another based on his knowledge about the other. His knowledge is limited by his experience or observation of the other.

Such a situation happened to me at my work place.
Our team happened to attend one training program. At the last there was a feedback session. The question asked was "Who is satisfied with this program?"
I chose the answer No.!!! The trainer (colleague only, senior to me) asked me to come to him and was bullshitting. "What is not there in the program that you are not satisfied? Shall I complain regarding you to the higher authorities? Now, after this , will you complain about me to the Head?" I was looking at him out of shock, anger, disgust and ofcourse he seemed silly to me. He asked me an opinion, I expressed mine. Thats all , thats the end of it. What is the dying need that everyone's opinion should accord with his?

This is the case with everyone who had spent time with such people around for a good deal of time. Varma's opinion about his opinion is the same. "I'm expressing my opinion, I can enjoy that within the limits of the constitution. Whether you are influenced by it or not is entirely your concern".Still many XXs ask the same question time and again to just prove forever that they are never influenced(or perhaps listened to) by what Varma or anyone has repeatedly expressed their opinion about the same thing!!!